What kind of person do you love to be around? What specific qualities do you look for in a friend or lover? Please leave a comment below and let us know. Thanks for another great read. I like the way you ended your last point.
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People that acknowledge when they do things that are not so nice and apologize, instead of ignoring the situation. Honesty, Loyalty and Self Love are the best qualities an individual can have, live and share.
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Hi, I love these! What you feel and accept is a choice. Have an awesome day! I like being around friends who are problem solvers. Someone with a real honest personality, because everything radiates from within.
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As for forgiveness, we need to add forgetfulness. Forget the mistakes ours and othersforget the pain pain does NOT equal learning, otherwise torture would be the greatest learning tool ever inventedand forget our regrets what was done, and NOT done, or undone.
I like to be around upbeat, positive people who realize they are a work in progress and that no one is perfect. People who have an attitude of gratitude and who take responsibility for their lives.
The specific qualities I look for in people and a lover are: Whenever I read something on here I feel empowered to accept me in a more gentle way. After reading the comments I also feel less alone. Qualities I value in others revolve around the idea that I feel safe and relaxed and they feel safe and relaxed.
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Thank you so much for this wonderful article. Sorry is the most misused word. There many differences that can csring solved. There bad human beings who say sorry only for their own interest, which the only thing that they understand.
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Because the simple act of being honest can change your life in awesome earth-shattering ways. Because that practice has amazing benefits in your life. Without further ado — three parts: Emotional Honesty — with yourself and with others. Meaning, authenticity in your way of being. Just looking for someone fun and honest and caring it comes to relationships — honesty is a sign of wholeness, confidence and self-love.
I think of honesty as a synonym for trust and intimacy. A lack of honesty can taint your relationship just as powerfully.
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The fear evaporates and everything just gets super simple. Once you approach your life with honesty, you will begin to confront things as they arise. Without the make-shift solutions, what happens is your life becomes a purer expression of your truth. Guided by who you are and what you want: Dishonesty is the system of controlling what scares us.
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There is no perfect partner. This oloking easy stuff, guys. My boyfriend and I lived together at the time, but he was so oblivious that after a day and a half I dragged myself, zombie-like, to the drug store two blocks away and bought my own meds, and was so exhausted by the time I got back that I crashed on the couch for hours afterwards.
But damnson. Just go re-read the first section, honestly.